Social Withdrawal

If you must know me, you would know that I've been withdrawing myself from the society for quite a period of time. I simply went with my gut and shut myself off from socializing in any form – refusing to succumb to temptations that were alluring me back to square one – and boy was it good.

Depression was not to be blamed.

It was one day when I figured how unhappy and agitated I was – at nobody but myself. Being a very emotional person that I am, it was absolutely suffocating being surrounded by a bevy of overly emotional people that it became difficult to maintain my balance to navigate my way through volatile waters. So unhealthy; what with me lashing out my anger and emotions to the world only to find that none of it mattered, not to anyone and undoubtedly not to the universe.

I loathed the society but little did I know that I was the society.

Then my frustration kicked in. We use the term "society" when it comes to social justice conversations and of course, as a way to deflect responsibility. Frustrated, I knew I had to put a stop to it. I had to do something and I did. I started off by deleting all the social networking accounts I signed up for and distanced myself away from the circle of friends I have/had.

Within that duration of isolation, I instilled optimism into my head. I threw all the negativity I had in me knowing it is my choice to be the sensible one. I breathed new life into an old idea, an almost-forgotten dream and a once-vibrant relationship. As I always do, I turned to Allah and asked for His guidance. He never fails, not ever.

I experienced an incredible transformation and of course a radical change. My family have always and will always be the best friends I'll ever have and I am grateful to the Almighty for His blessings. Hey, there's nothing wrong with being too family-oriented.

Change is good, so take it from me; if there is some worn-down aspect of your life that could use a sprinkle of magic or a make-over, then get started today lads. There may be a reason for doing so that you haven't yet figured out, but the inspiration you're feeling means that it was meant to be. You can work wonders if you are feeling inspired, so trust what you're feeling and tomorrow will be far more laid-back and serene, god willing.

Now I suggest you go on and put the biggest smile on your face and a song in your heart today – no matter how you're really feeling – you will find that everything around you is brighter and happier.

Try it.